Should you attending your Cocktail Hour?
somethings to consider
Your wedding day flies by—seriously, one minute you’re saying “I do,” the next you’re dancing, laughing, and cutting your cake. There’s so much happening, and it can feel like the day is just a whirlwind of moments. That’s why a cocktail hour is one of my favorite parts of the day. It’s that sweet little pause where you can take a breath, soak it all in, and enjoy some of the best parts of being newly married. Here’s why it’s such a game-changer:
Just married, together
Cocktail hour is one of the few times where it’s just the two of you together in the middle of your big day. No schedule to follow, no photos to rush through—just a chance to soak in that “we did it” feeling, laugh together, and really enjoy the moment as newlyweds.
Drinks + apps = happiness
This is your time to sip on your signature drinks and snack on the appetizers you carefully picked. It’s a little celebration of your tastes and style, and it gives your guests a chance to mingle and enjoy the details you’ve planned. Plus, who doesn’t love a good drink in hand while soaking in the atmosphere?
Say hi to your people
One of the best parts of cocktail hour is the relaxed setting to personally greet your guests. You can thank them for being there, share a laugh, and really connect without feeling rushed. It’s a moment to enjoy your people before the reception kicks into full swing.
Sneak out for dreamy photos
Here’s a bonus: with sunsets lasting later these days, cocktail hour is the perfect window to sneak away for a few magical sunset photos. You get those dreamy shots while your guests are still enjoying themselves—and it feels like a secret little moment just for you two.
Savor every second
The day moves so fast, and cocktail hour is one of those pockets of time that lets you slow down and really enjoy it all. From laughter with your favorite people to quiet moments with your partner, it’s a chance to pause, soak it in, and create memories you’ll treasure forever.
Cocktail hour doesn’t have to be the “thing in between” your ceremony and reception—it’s a moment to breathe, celebrate, and enjoy your newlywed glow. Consider not skipping it—you’ll be so glad you didn’t.
