The Art of getting ready
Capturing Real…
+ cherishing each moment
We know that “getting ready” photos are a popular part of a wedding day—but let’s be honest, they can sometimes feel a little awkward or overcomplicated. What are you even supposed to do? The truth is, the best photos happen when you stop worrying about the camera and just focus on each other. Instead of stressing about how the photos will look or how you look, our biggest tip is simple: be present. Talk, laugh, cry, reminisce—just soak it all in. This is the only time you’ll ever have this exact moment together.
Let the morning unfold naturally. Maybe that means sharing a quiet moment with your mom, sister, or someone special to you. Maybe it’s cracking jokes or tearing up together. These moments aren’t about perfect poses—they’re about the love, history, and emotions you share. And honestly, those are the memories (and photos) you’ll cherish the most. ❤️
P.S. If you’ve experienced the loss of someone you wanted in the room with you, our hearts are with you. I, Jo, know what it’s like to step into the place of my mom to help my sister get dressed on her wedding day. It’s hard. But you aren’t alone—someone still wants to be there and love on you.
Here are some tips to make your “getting ready” moments feel natural and truly yours:
Take it slow. It only happens once, so let it feel natural—not forced. Just savor the moments before the whirlwind of the day begins.
Be yourselves. Whether you’re sentimental, cracking jokes, or a little chaotic, let this time reflect your relationship.
Let her help. Even if you don’t need it, let her button your dress, fix your veil, or simply hold your hand. She’s been waiting for this moment too.
Talk about the good stuff. Reminisce, laugh, cry—whatever feels right. This moment isn’t about perfection, it’s about celebrating your journey together and the many years to come.
It’s okay to cry. Don’t stress about makeup. Let the emotions flow. Makeup can be fixed, but these moments won’t come around again.
Forget about us in the room. The best photos aren’t staged. Those images you love on Pinterest? They’re often the ones captured when couples let themselves truly be in the moment—messy, laughing, crying, loving. You’ll remember her hug and her laugh far more than any pose.
Make it yours. This is a once-in-a-lifetime kind of morning. Don’t stress about perfection—just make it authentic. ❤️
Getting ready is more than hair and makeup—it’s about connection, reflection, and anticipation. Slow down, soak it in, and let your love for each other guide the day. These fleeting moments will become the memories you hold onto forever.
